Saturday, November 20, 2010

Expectations

Sometimes I feel like Mr. Jerry Seinfeld. You had the big nose, the man hands, eating peas one at a time and many other small things that led Jerry to break up with the girl. I often hear from friends after I break up with a girl that my expectations are too high. But where do you draw the line between finding what you need/want and having these expectations to high?

One of the things we studied in my beginning to marketing was order winners, order losers, and order qualifiers. Qualifiers are those things that qualify you for consideration. Winners are those things that separate you from everyone else. Losers are those things that will cause you to be taken out of consideration. I have decided that this will be my new template in finding my eternal companion by classifying the things I absolutely have to have and those that I could live without.

1 comment:

  1. I really do think it's hard to find the balance between expecting too much and expecting too little.

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